Regrets

Regrets

Death

Death

Short Tempered

Short Tempered

Significance of Good Intention

A good intention must be coupled with action.

A good intention not pursued cannot be called as good intention at all.

But let’s not judge and jump into conclusions why a good intention is not put into action.

There might be reason why it is not pursued and we must take those into consideration.

One reason might be lack of opportunity, which somehow can be a good and valid reason right?

A good example is when you want to help someone but, you don’t have the ability to do so.

There are many good intentions left undone for a person who lacks opportunity, knowing much that good intentions usually comes in form of money.



Another reason is when the other person doesn’t want to accept the help being offered for doubting the good intention we want to extend.

You might feel desperate in this situation and pitied the person for doubting, but this kind of action can be considered consummated for being pursued.

As long as you have the urge of doing good things to other people, in every situation, having no second thoughts signifies the good intention of your whole being.

It’s not everyday that we are given the chance of helping other people, so, grab every opportunity to do one good deeds and you will be benefitted at the end.

As the saying goes “ reap what you sow” and every good deeds done with good intention will never comes out with bad results.



From the moment you plan to pursue any good intention, always bear in mind that there might be some hindrance to arise.

Whether it is due to some circumstances or might be the other person will decline.

At the end of the day you can tell yourself, you’ve done your best without having any feeling of regrets.

And sleep with gladness, contentment, peace of mind for another day that passed having done a task meant for you.

Happiness and Contentment

People are busy with their lives,working and sometimes neglecting their family unintentionally.
It is a common knowledge that the head of the family is working for his family.
He works hard for his kids future to earn and save more money.
He always value time because he believes that time is gold and don't want to waste a single minute.
Great is the man who provide his family the luxury of life in this world.
But,does he ever asks his family if they are happy and contented?


Does he ever considered their feelings or he only listens to his?


We can never tell a perfect family from material things a family owns.
We can never say who lives a happy life from a well guarded subdivision or from the wide rows of shanties at slum area.
We can never tell who gives real meaning of happiness from who's faces among the rich and the poorest of the poor.


Rich or poor,happy or sorrow- everyone wants to live.
But do they really know the purpose of their existence?
Why we human only sees the things in this life and never think of what lies ahead.
Was their life after death?
Is their happiness behind sorrow?
And justice for those innocent people killed from the hands of so-called righteous beliefs,and sick mind?

a passage says:


"While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.”

Acceptance and Forgiveness

Speaking of human emotion, infidelity of a beloved partner is one of the bitterest situations which some cannot bear, resulting most of the times in crimes and the destruction of a family. You  must also consider the situation surrounding the commission of such acts. Did your partner intentionally do it; or did someone who initiated the act force him or her.

There are few things to consider in this aspect. Maybe, the circumstances forced him/her to do mistake. We should not jump into conclusion, but listen to the person and investigate further before casting a judgment. After giving your best to know the whole details and proven the person guilty still, never turn your back on him/her. This is the moment he/she needed you the most.

To forgive and to forget is attainable by the human mind and heart. It may take sometime...but it can be done and not impossible if we try it. There is not need for reconciliation or what they call "second time around".  What matters most...are forgiveness and letting go of those pains that made you a prisoner of the past. Never waste your life thinking and living with the past. If you cannot accept the person, then forgive and let go. Put yourself into his/her shoe. You never knew what kind of verdict you might receive if ever you did the same mistake. You can never tell you will never commit same mistake unless you are in the same position and situation as he/she is.

If such situation hurt you and your pride, do you think the concern person is not suffering as much as you do? The only consolation you can give is forgiveness; it will give benefit to both of you. You will have peace in your mind and unload heavy burden from your heart. At the same time, you are giving the person a good reason to start and repent. Is it not that good to both of you? 

You may think, what if he/she will never changed and repent, what if he/she will never regret the wrong things he/she has done. Never mind then, it is not your fault anymore. As long as you have done your part, no one can blame you anymore.

Wounds, physical or emotional, can be healed by time, as an old song says “

…but time can bring a change of heart; and love can make another start.

Someday you may comeback to me to stay; but who can say how soon?"

In addition, the only way to achieve all these is...FORGIVENESS and ACCEPTANCE!

"There are things done which are impossible to be undone."